(A heartfelt tribute to my dearest Grandpa Hogue)

If Heaven has internet,
I’d send a message,
Just to tell you, Papa,
How much you’re missed—how much you’re loved.

I still feel the warmth of your hug,
Like the crisp winter air when we walked through the snow,
Strolling through the quiet neighborhood,
Laughing, playing, and simply enjoying the moment.

I still hear your voice on that quiet evening,
Sitting by the side yard,
Where I asked about the meaning of life—
A question that had puzzled me for years.

I wish I could remember more of what you said,
But what stays with me is the feeling—
Warmth, understanding, and peace.
And one thing you said remains crystal clear:
“At moments of doubt, seek Him.”

I remember that windy spring day,
The picture outside the church,
Cheeseburgers after service,
Everyone’s laughter carried by the breeze.

And that summer before bidding farewell,
We played in the backyard,
Swinging on the tree net web saucer,
Letting time slip away in the joy of the moment,
Not knowing how much I’d hold onto it now.

You were a soldier, a shepherd to many, a grandpa—
Strong yet gentle, wise yet full of humor.
That June you drove down just to say goodbye,
A quiet gesture that spoke louder than words,
As if to remind me—some goodbyes aren’t forever.

Papa, I was supposed to visit last winter,
But circumstances changed, and I thought I had time.
Now, I am lost for words,
Memories rushing in like waves I can’t hold back.

But if Heaven has internet,
Please know—
You are remembered. You are cherished.
Your love and encouragement still guide me.

And though my heart aches,
I am thankful—
That you are now at peace,
That you are home.

2025 is the Year of the Snake — a year symbolising transformation, strategy, and flexibility. Snakes don’t charge forward blindly; they observe, adapt, and strike when the time is right. And that’s exactly what we should do when making decisions in life and business.

Recently, I came across a simple yet highly practical approach called EDA — Essential, Desirable, and Acceptable. It’s a game-changer when it comes to decision-making, negotiation, and strategy. Since it has helped me think more clearly, I’m sharing it here so you can apply it too.

What is the EDA Approach?

At its core, EDA is about categorising choices into three levels:

• Essential (E) – The non-negotiables. Without these, the deal falls apart.
• Desirable (D) – The nice-to-haves. These add value but aren’t deal-breakers.
• Acceptable (A) – The minimum you can live with. Not ideal, but workable.

This approach is so simple, yet once you start using it, you’ll realise how powerful it is.

Example 1: The Pizza Dilemma🍕

Imagine you’re ordering a pizza. Your cravings kick in, and you start thinking about your ideal choice.

• Essential: The pizza must be freshly made and arrive hot — because no one enjoys stale, cold pizza!
• Desirable: You’d love a generous layer of cheese, fresh toppings, and a perfectly crispy crust.
• Acceptable: If the crust isn’t as crispy as you prefer or they skimp a little on the toppings, you might still go for it — because pizza is still pizza.

Fun fact: My favourite pizza is Hawaiian pizza (yes, the one with pineapple!). So, if the restaurant doesn’t have it, I’ll use the EDA approach—maybe I’ll opt for Pepperoni Chicken instead, but if all they have is plain cheese, that’s my last-resort acceptable option.

Now, you don’t waste time overanalysing the menu. You know what’s a must, what’s preferred, and what’s still okay. Decision made.

Example 2: Negotiating a Business Contract🤝

Now, let’s take this mindset into a real-world scenario — negotiating a contract with a vendor.

Say you’re a business owner signing a deal with a software provider. You don’t want to get stuck in endless back-and-forth negotiations, so you apply the EDA approach:

• Essential: The software must include core features your business relies on, have a clear service-level agreement (SLA) for uptime, and offer secure data protection. Without these, you’re not even considering the deal.
• Desirable: You’d love if they provided 24/7 customer support, customization options, or discounted pricing for long-term use — great perks but not absolute deal-breakers.
• Acceptable: If they can’t offer round-the-clock support but have a reliable ticketing system with a 24-hour response time, you might be willing to accept that.

By knowing your EDA levels, you can negotiate with confidence, knowing when to push and when to compromise strategically.

Example 3: The Right Fit Puzzle🧩 

Let’s apply EDA to employment decisions — whether you’re looking for a new job or hiring a candidate.

If you’re job hunting, here’s how you can use it:

• Essential: The job must match your skill set, offer fair compensation, and have growth opportunities. Without these, it’s a no-go.
• Desirable: You’d love a hybrid work setup, a great team culture, and additional perks like wellness benefits.
• Acceptable: If everything else is great but the office location is further than you’d like, you might still take the offer.

If you’re an employer, the same concept applies when hiring:

• Essential: The candidate must meet the required skills and fit the role’s core demands.
• Desirable: A candidate with extra certifications, leadership experience, or industry-specific expertise is a bonus.
• Acceptable: If the candidate lacks some preferred skills but has strong potential, they might still be a great hire.

EDA helps in both hiring and job searching by setting clear expectations!

Why You Should Start Using EDA Today

People have pointed out that I tend to overthink things — guilty as charged🤦‍♀️! I bet you have been stuck on a decision at times too. That’s where EDA shines — it cuts through the noise. The funny thing? This simple yet effective approach has always been there — we just tend to overlook its importance and practicality.

Next time you’re feeling stuck, take a step back and ask yourself:

💭What’s essential?
💭What’s desirable?
💭What’s acceptable?

Whether you’re deciding on a purchase, negotiating a deal, job hunting or hiring the right fit for your business, this approach will help you stay clear-headed and flexible.

Give it a try and see how much easier decision-making becomes!

In a world where work-life balance is increasingly under scrutiny, understanding your rights as an employee in Malaysia has never been more crucial. This article delves into the key aspects of Malaysian employment law, inspired by a recent podcast discussing the tragic death of a U.S. bank associate allegedly linked to excessive working hours. This incident serves as a stark reminder of the importance of robust employment laws and their enforcement.

As the echoes of this story reverberate across continents, it prompts us to examine our own backyard. What protections do Malaysian workers have? How does our nation safeguard the rights and well-being of its workforce?

As we explore the labour laws in Malaysia, we’ll also touch on how these laws impact employers and businesses operating in the country.

A Tripartite Legal Landscape

Malaysia’s employment law framework is not uniform across the country. Depending on your work location, you’ll fall under one of three primary employment statutes:

1. Peninsular Malaysia: Employment Act 1955
2. Sabah: Labour Ordinance (Cap 67)
3. Sarawak: Labour Ordinance (Chapter 76)

For this article, we’ll focus on the Employment Act 1955, as recently amended by the Employment (Amendment) Act 2022, coming into force on 1 January 2023, which governs the majority of Malaysian workers.

Who’s Covered?

While the workforce comprises various types of employees — full-time, part-time, casual workers, and more — this article primarily addresses the rights and protections for full-time employees. These are the backbone of many organisations, dedicating their full working hours to a single employer.

Key Rights and Protections

1. Working Hours and Overtime

The standard workweek in Malaysia is capped at 45 hours. Any work beyond this is considered overtime. While specific overtime rates vary, it’s crucial to note that these overtime entitlements typically don’t apply to employees earning over RM4,000 per month.

2. Rest Days

Every employee is entitled to at least 1 rest day per week. If they are required to work on a rest day, they are entitled to additional compensation. Again, these additional pay entitlements do not apply to those earning above RM4,000.

3. Public Holidays

Malaysia observes several public holidays throughout the year and all full-time employees are legally entitled to paid public holidays.

The number of public holidays can vary by state, but generally includes the 11 gazetted public holidays (5 of which are: National Day; birthday of Yang di-Pertuan Agong; birthday of the Yang di-Pertua Negeri; Workers’ Day; and Malaysia Day) and special holidays appointed by the ministers in accordance with S.8 of Holidays Act 1951.

4. Annual Leave

The 1955 Act provides for a minimum of 8 days of annual leave for employees who have been in service for less than two years, increasing to 12 days for those with two to five years of service, and 16 days for those with more than five years of service.

5. Sick Leave

Under the amended employment law, sick leave provisions have been significantly enhanced to better support employees’ health needs.

Standard Sick Leave: The entitlement to paid sick leave varies based on the employees’ service duration;

• Less than 2 years: 14 days;
• 2 to 5 years: 18 days;
• More than 5 years: 22 days; and/or

Hospitalisation Leave: In addition to the standard sick leave above, employees are entitled to 60 days of paid hospitalisation leave per year.

The 2022 amendment separates the calculation of sick leave and hospitalisation leave.

For illustration, if the employee has worked for the employer for less than 2 years, such employee will be entitled to:

• 14 days of sick leave; and
• 60 days of hospitalisation leave.

The total potential leave for such employee in the illustration above is 74 days, instead of the pre-amendment limit of 60 days aggregate sick leave.

Note: Employees must still provide certified medical certificates to validate the sick leave claims.

6. Maternity and Paternity Leave

Following the amendment, maternity leave for female employees has been increased from 60 to 98 days.

The 2022 amendment also introduces 7 days of paternity leave for married male employees subject to conditions.

Interestingly, our neighboring country, Singapore, recently announced plans to extend shared parental leave. By April 2026, parents in Singapore will be entitled to a total of 30 weeks of parental leave. This progressive move might spark discussions about similar enhancements in Malaysia’s parental leave policies.

7. Flexible Working Arrangements

The 2022 amendment introduces provisions for employees to apply for flexible working arrangements, which employers must consider and respond to within 60 days. This reflects a growing recognition of the importance of work-life balance and the changing nature of work in the modern era.

8. Protection Against Sexual Harassment

Employers are required to display a conspicuous notice to raise awareness about sexual harassment in the workplace and attend to sexual harassment complaints in a prescribed manner.

The Road Ahead

As global conversations about work-life balance, mental health, and employee rights continue to evolve, it’s crucial for all stakeholders (both employers and employees) in Malaysia to stay informed about their rights and responsibilities. By fostering a culture of compliance and respect for worker rights, we can create a more equitable, safe and productive workforce for all.

While this article provides an overview of the essential provisions of employment law, employment law can be complex and situation-specific. Always consult with legal professionals or the relevant authorities for advice on your specific circumstances.

Illuminated towers, dark realities: The unseen toll of overwork and your rights under Malaysia’s Employment Laws in 2024.

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Have you ever felt like you’re riding a roller coaster blindfolded, not knowing when the next twist or turn will come? That’s life in a nutshell – unpredictable, chaotic, and wonderfully whimsical.

Welcome to Whimsy Terra, a space where we embrace the beautiful randomness of existence and explore the fascinating world around us, even as it evolves at breakneck speed.

The Genesis

It all started in the final year of high school. There I was, surrounded by textbooks and expectations, when a peculiar thought struck me: What if our world – our terra – is inherently whimsical? This idea, born out of equal parts boredom and existential curiosity, became the seed for Whimsy Terra.

Embracing the Randomness in a Changing World

As the years passed, I realized something crucial: trying to force answers from within often leads nowhere. Instead, the key lies in embracing life’s randomness such as:

• Unexpected personality changes
• Sudden losses that shake our foundations
• Serendipitous encounters that change our path

But randomness isn’t limited to personal experiences. Consider the recent surge of artificial intelligence. The first time many of us interacted with AI, it felt like touching the future – exhilarating and terrifying in equal measure. Suddenly, a “soulless” machine could generate human-like responses, leading to fears in many people in the society of job displacement and existential questions about human uniqueness.

This AI revolution is just another example of life’s whimsical nature. It challenges us to adapt, to find new ways of defining our worth and purpose. The key is to approach these changes with curiosity rather than fear.

While writing this part, the vibrant energy of this music piece resonated with me. Feel free to give it a listen and enjoy!

Connecting the Dots: Hindsight and Foresight

While life often feels random in the moment, hindsight often reveals patterns we couldn’t see before. Steve Jobs once said, “You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backward.”

However, there’s a delicate balance to strike:

1. Reflect on the past to find meaning and patterns
2. Use these insights to inform your present decisions
3. But don’t get so caught up in connecting dots that you forget to move forward

From Inner Turmoil to Outer Exploration

It’s natural to feel lost and confused when faced with life’s big questions or rapid changes. I’ve been there and still are often, grappling with the desire for clear-cut answers. But here’s what I’ve learned and tried to practice:

1. Acknowledge the confusion
2. Accept that some questions may not have definitive answers
3. Shift focus from inner turmoil to outer exploration

Training Ground for Articulating Thoughts

Whimsy Terra serves as a platform of turning that inner search outward, exploring the wonders of our whimsical world and sharing those discoveries with you. It’s also a training ground for me to articulate my thoughts more clearly and concisely – a skill that becomes increasingly valuable in our fast-paced, information-rich world.

Someone once told me my messages often read like essays – apparently, not everyone’s idea of a fun Friday night read! But hey, if you ever feel like my ‘essay’ could use some fine-tuning, don’t hesitate to drop some constructive feedback in the comments. After all, this is a training ground, and I’m always eager to improve!

Terra Incognita

Life is a terra incognita – an unknown land full of surprises. Instead of fearing its unpredictability, what if we celebrated it? What if we approached each day, each technological advancement, each personal challenge with curiosity and wonder?

Whimsy Terra is for the curious, the wonder-seekers, and anyone who’s ever asked “why” and been thrilled by the journey to find out.

“I am seeking, I am striving, I am in it with all my heart.” – Van Gogh

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